I agree with you on the money issue. Can Guys Just Be Friends with Girls? I don't ask many questions. ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, 21 hours ago, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:16 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:24 PM, ENA posted a blog entry in Articles, Monday at 07:29 PM, By I wouldn't put a gun I was cleaning up to my head and pull the trigger, even if I had already taken the bullets out of it. He wanted to go to bars CONSTANTLY. "It likely means that they don't want you in family photos and/or on their family's mind. It wasnt just that, he was a flirt. You know the one that is filled with mostly guys, laid back and where everyone knows everyone and if you don't you will by the time you walk out and people cheer when you walk in the door? I don't go by myself but when I was young and single I did. Make out you are. But, that's not the point of your post so I digress. Some men J. have very flirtatious personalities. A bar you've been to with him and women are frequently coming to say hi to him, hugging him, getting his attention. I'm in need of help my boyfriend and I have been dating go a year and a bit he rang me telling me he going to a work do and that he would call in the morning I hqvent from him since I have his wallet and everything I'm so worried he might be cheating on me what do I do ?? I called him at 11:30. If it works for you two great! Later that day when I went to see him again he had a bite on his neck and it looked like a love mark. Emotional or physical affairs are not okay in my book. My husband and I are a like to where he has more female friends and I have more male friends that we are closest to, thankfully it doesn't bother either one of us. about 60-70 % of all females at Los Angeles bars are already taken and there with girlfriends or they are actually there with their boyfriends lmao. what do I do? If you want to keep this guy then you will have to learn to give him his freedom. SO he was not to be trusted. registered trademarks of Ziff Davis Canada, Inc. and may not be used by third parties without He stays out all night and turns the ringer off, pfffft. A spouse can interact with the world and other people. **Updated, Discussion-Having Single Friends When Married. Now, pull out the choke - but only three-quarters of the way - hit that button again. You know honestly im sure it depends on the person. It was tough for the first several months because of fear she might cheat like my 1st gf. You spent the formative part of your relationship being someone you really are not by going to the bars with him often.leading. As many said, you have to take your spouses comfort level into consideration. We have a very stable relationship and have known each other for over 20 years even though we have only been married for almost 3 years. Although it's good for your relationship for both your and your partner to do things without the other person, some of the specific things that they (or you) do alone can actually give you some insight into how they're feeling about the relationship. The second time he disappointed me was when he got so angry at me because he had an argument with his friends. Did you know that at least 4000 to 5000 of my posts were done before the thumbs up even came in. My husband (these days) wants M. to be happy and encourages M. to get time out doing things I love. Covering Phoenix, Mesa, Glendale, Scottsdale, Gilbert, the valley . BUT, remember, he is out, don't go ballistic if you don't hear from him, and leave him alone while he is out. No brainer. To M. it seems like it's J. some women who are attracted to women, not the majority. If a guy is going to cheat on you, he doesn't have to go to the bar to do it. Hi dan,my girlfriend and I are together for 2 years now,and its the 3rd time that she has been to the club without me,she even says that she doesn't want any commitments now,where as I do,During these 2 years we haven't been to a club together,and I don't know what's going on behind my back,but she goes with her elder girl cousins to . He probably went to bars like 2-4 days a week. It doesn't seem like he is sticking around for you. Guy didnt wish me happy birthday am I wrong to be upset? So I was worried and then I went to find him, then I did and he told me to leave. Lots of ladies (myself included) go out to meet friends without spouses to bars, and any bar is going to have single people in it. Like doing some. khairete I went to sleep at 11 pm and now it's 6 am in the morning and he hasn't messaged me at all. Id quit that game and never play again. So..he and I need to discuss all this, and if he's not willing to change, I may have to walk. Probably. If it's a trend, however, you might need to do some reflecting. That is exactly what's going on with me. he knows you get hurt by what he does but still continues partying like someone who's single. Let's face it - we all know bars can be totally unconducive places for relationships. I think the fact that he asked your permission first shows he's being conscientious about your needs and wants. It seems like you really enjoy the attention so maybe your current relationship isn't up to par? It would be awkward coz we usually hang out with each other alongside other people. We LIKE being home together. Because, I 100% trust him and hes a good dude. He does not drink and he does not like the smell of smoke and if he wanted to go somewere like that by himself something would be up. I just want to hear stories of people whose SO goes out with his/her friends and your ok with it? This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. We met online and rea Why does he text me all day about sweet things and stuff but never call? I tried to make friends with the girls, but it didnt help because when he made a comment about how good she looked in the thong, it showed no regard for me. I do what I CHOOSE to do. That's why I wouldn't go out to a bar without my SO. Bars are not not my scene. I went to see my boyfriend in the worst place in Vancouver downtown and he was standing outside of the bar and this was late at night by the way. Right now, it seems he's being attentive to your needs. She may be loud and obnoxious, overly flirtatious, and quite often visibly tanked. You get anxious when your boyfriend goes out because you're worried he's cheating, or that you aren't good enough and he'll find someone better. So I dont think there would be problems. NO. You still are a person, apart from your spouse. what do i do? Keep being yourself, good relationships are hard to come by, and people are only jealous of yours :). I arrived alone and I left alone. HE needed the excitement is what he told M.. I wouldn't like the kind of relationships you are talking about, being with people(men or women) that I don't know well or interact with regularly. Don't make the same mistake I did. I saw some people I know and I guess we go there enough, some of the staff know M. by sight. If I had asked questions, and made a couple comments, I am sure I could have had a hundred thousand posts by now too. Started Saturday at 12:43 AM, By yes i need a kick in the butt tonight! "[I]f you find that your partner is more engaged with text messaging friends or on social media when you're with them, this is a sign that they are not present in the relationship," Hershenson says. Feeling down or depressed is a common experience for many people at some point in their lives. Um, no. He does not even care if I go dancing cause he knows who I am going home to. Track his every move know what he is doing all the time put a tracking chip on him shut up!! Tinder, the popular dating app, is no longer just for hookups. The problem with being alone is, that usually means you'll have to find people to talk to and thats sorta the fishy part for the spouses I think. But when it seems like there's a sharp increase in time apart, that's not a good sign for your relationship.". We don't forbid each other from seeing anyone. To a bar he goes to frequently and before he met with you, would meet up with a lot of girls, some of which are a lot younger and they still frequent this bar. I envy those who can go out. 1. If you go to meet other guys, yeah, big problem. Part of your discomfort about your boyfriend going out may be because you wish you were doing the same. but again, i think you're in a completely different place. 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I feel any interactions should be allowed but also feel that if you're in a committed relationship and someone has an issue with a particular person your relationship comes first obviously and while you won't be "controlled" by your spouse you should definitely take their opinion into account and compromise and adjust behavior accordingly. Sorry - J. reality in my world - you haven't made a LIFETIME commitment to your boyfriend - hence the fact he is bf and not dh. Not all of your friends or theirs will definitely be in relationships at the same time, so it's not necessarily a red flag if they plan dinner out with one of their single friends, but if hanging out with their single friends without you starts taking priority over spending time with you, that might mean that something is wrong. I know it might be a challenge but just say hey i love you a lot but im feeling a little troubled lately. Nothing controlling about it. 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